The RELATIONSHIPS spoke of the Wheel of Wellness

Let's consider another spoke of the Wheel of Wellness – RELATIONSHIPS (forgiving, compassionate, loving my neighbor as myself, at peace with others)

One of the most often repeated expressions in Scripture is this: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” References include Leviticus 19:18, Matthew 19:19 and 22:39, Mark 12:31, Romans 13:0, Galatians 5:14, and James 2:8.

The foundational statement, Lev. 19:19, was included in God's instructions to the Children of Israel through Moses: “Then the LORD spoke to Moses, saying, … 'You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the sons of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself; I am the LORD.'” Also included in that teaching were the Ten Commandments, the “Kosher” laws, and other instructions for daily living. God's teachings were for the benefit and welfare (good health, or wellness) of the Chosen People.

When Jesus first quoted the Leviticus passage (Matthew 19:19), he was responding to a young man of property who had asked, “Teacher, what good thing shall I do that I may obtain eternal life?” Along with other instructions, (do not murder, do not commit adultery, do not steal, do not lie, and honor your father and mother), Jesus told him to love his neighbor as himself. It seems to me that if those instructions are beneficial for eternal life, they are also worthwhile for present life. As I see it, eternal life is not a separate life from the present, but rather a continuation – a new chapter following at the end of the one we are writing now.

In the other gospel passages (Matthew 22:39 and Mark 12:31), Jesus was responding to the question of which is the greatest commandment. Jesus' response gave the first as “Love the LORD your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, (Mark only: and with all your strength).” Then he added as the second greatest, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” That fits with our discussion here: last time we called the first spoke of wellness one's relationship with God, and now the second spoke is our relationships with one another.

The simple fact that this expression came from God through Moses and was repeated by Jesus three times, by Paul twice, and by James gives great weight to the concept. The only new twist I'm adding is that physical wellness is not really separable from spiritual wholeness. Just as separation from God can hamper one's wellness, so also estrangement from family or others can have an adverse effect on wellness. Unforgiveness, holding grudges, lack of compassion all can harm wellness. Remember 2 Corinthians 13:11 Finally, brethren, rejoice, be made complete, be comforted, be like-minded, live in peace; and the God of love and peace will be with you.

This, then, is one more spoke in the Wheel of Wellness.